Marina Daif, RP (Qualifying) #11207 is a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) at MyLife Counselling in Guelph. She works with couples and adults through relationships, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief & loss, self-esteem, self-criticism, and self-confidence issues. Learn more about Marina here.
Meditation Tips for Depression
Meditation can be a valuable practice for those navigating the challenges of depression. It creates an opportunity to gently reconnect with yourself, helping you work through overwhelming emotions and negative thought patterns that are often associated with depression. It also promotes mindfulness, which allows you to cultivate an awareness of the present moment. In turn, this helps you to detach from the cycles of negative thinking and anxiety. Additionally, meditation promotes relaxation, reduces stress, and increases a non-judgmental approach to your emotional experiences. If you are struggling with depression, meditation can become a source of comfort and stability, and it can guide you through challenging times while allowing you to build long-term resilience. Whether you are experienced or new to meditation, incorporating the following seven strategies into your practice can enhance its benefits for you.
1. Start Small & Be Compassionate with Yourself
If you are new to meditation practices and it seems overwhelming, remember starting slow and setting realistic expectations for yourself is key. Even 5-10 minutes of meditation a day can be beneficial for you. Dealing with depression often involves low energy, low motivation, and difficulty concentrating, so you do not need to aim for long meditation sessions right away. Starting with shorter sessions allows the experience to be more manageable and it also allows you to create a routine for yourself that does not feel like a burden.
The goal of meditation is not perfection but rather a gentle awareness of the present moment. Since depression often involves rumination, you may find your mind wandering or it may be difficult for you to stay focused on the practice. In those moments, remember to be compassionate towards yourself. It is normal for your mind to wander and lose focus, especially when you are dealing with overwhelming thoughts and feelings. Instead of judging yourself or feeling discouraged, gently guide your focus back to the current moment you are in. Doing so will allow you to build resilience by improving your tolerance towards your negative experiences while strengthening your ability to stay present.
Over time, as you familiarize yourself with meditation, you can gradually extend the length of your sessions. Remember to go at your own pace, as the quality of your practice is far more important than the quantity. Any step forward, no matter how small, is still progress. Your meditation session should be a time for you to let go of any pressures or expectations you may be putting on yourself so that you can experience peace amidst your emotional struggles.
2. Choose a Calm & Comfortable Space
The space you choose to meditate in directly impacts your ability to stay present, focused, and relaxed. When you are dealing with depression, it is especially important to create a calming, safe, and supportive environment for yourself. Choose a quiet, distraction-free area that feels cozy to you. It is essential to minimize any surrounding clutter to promote calmness and allow yourself to unwind. Depression can sometimes lead to feeling scattered or disorganized, and a messy space can exacerbate these feelings. To promote a tranquil and healing environment, you can also light a candle or play meditative music in the background during your meditation session. These subtle changes help to enhance the calming energy of the space you are in.
It is also important to ensure that you are feeling comfortable in the position you are in. Whether you choose to sit or lie down, make sure your body does not feel strained. If you choose to sit, ensure that you are upright but not rigid. If you choose to lie down, comfortably position yourself on your back. To help you feel more comfortable in this supine position, you can place a pillow underneath your head and/or knees for extra support.
3. Focus on Your Breath
Focusing on your breath serves as an anchor to the present moment, which can help you better manage your negative thoughts and feelings. Depression often involves getting stuck in negative thought loops and ruminating about past events. Shifting your attention towards your breathing can help gently interrupt these unproductive patterns and bring you back to the present. Begin by closing your eyes or softening your gaze and take deep, deliberate breaths. You may practice the “boxed breathing” technique, which involves inhaling for 4 seconds, holding your breath for 4 seconds, exhaling for 4 seconds, and holding your breath for another 4 seconds before repeating. Try to be conscious about what energy you want to embody as you inhale (e.g., calmness, clarity) and what energy you want to release as you exhale (e.g., stress, tension). Conscious breathing can help you cultivate an inner stillness by slowing down racing thoughts and allowing your body to relax.
Focusing on your breath also involves noticing the physical sensations associated with your deep breathing. Pay mindful attention to the way the air feels as it enters and exits your nose or mouth and how your chest rises and falls with every inhale and exhale. Connecting with your body allows your mind to let go of the worries or sadness that often accompany depression. Over time, your breath can serve as an anchor not just during meditation sessions but any stressful or overwhelming situations you might find yourself in.
4. Practice Loving-Kindness Meditation (“Metta”)
Depression is usually accompanied by harsh self-criticism, thoughts of unworthiness, and feelings of isolation. These internal struggles make it difficult for you to connect with yourself and others. Metta can be a powerful antidote to these negative thoughts and feelings since it fosters self-compassion as well as compassion towards others. This can help to buffer against the negative impacts of negative self-talk. Engaging in Metta involves expressing positive wishes and intentions towards yourself and other people. You may recite phrases like “May I be happy” or “May you be peaceful,” aloud or in your head. Repeatedly expressing kindness towards yourself and others during meditation helps to counteract the all-consuming negative emotionality you may experience with depression. Even if you initially struggle to believe the kind words you are reciting, remaining consistent with this practice can help you positively rewire your brain over time so that you may experience more joy and empathy.
5. Do Not Forget About Gratitude
Another effective way to positively rewire your brain is to make gratitude a regular practice in your meditation sessions. Depression often involves a strong fixation on the negatives, which is detrimental to your wellbeing and quality of life. Expressing gratitude for the things you have helps you to shift your attention towards the good in your life. You do not need to search hard for anything big. Being grateful for the sunshine in the sky or a smile you noticed from a stranger allows you to build an appreciation towards the simple things in life. This mindset shifts allows you to focus more on abundance and less on the scarcity you may otherwise perceive. You can also express gratitude towards yourself for making it through another day. This can help you develop a more positive self-perception, which can lead to other positive shifts in your mindset.
6. Engage in Positive Imagery
Engaging in positive imagery is a fantastic way to enhance the benefits of your meditation session by bringing you a sense of peace, calmness, and comfort. It involves imagining yourself in a place or situation where you feel safe and happy. The goal is to immerse yourself in your imagination, picturing yourself and your environment as vividly as you can. Allow your mind and your body to respond to your positive imagery as if it were real. For instance, if you are picturing yourself somewhere sunny, imagine how the heat of the sun feels on your skin. If you are picturing yourself in your favorite park, think about the colors of the flowers and trees around you. You can stay in this mental safe space for as long as you need to or follow a guided positive imagery meditation. Regularly practicing this can create a positive mindset shift and help you break free from the cyclical negative thought patterns that often accompany depression. Over time, positive imagery can lead to mood improvement and emotional resilience.
7. Try a Body Scan Meditation
Depression can be just as much of a physical struggle as it is a mental one. Fatigue, muscle tension, and chronic pain are common physiological symptoms of depression. A body scan meditation allows you to connect with your body in a compassionate, gentle way. In turn, this can help you release the stress and tension that your body may be holding on to and promote more relaxation.
You can begin this practice the same way you begin any type of meditation by finding a comfortable position to be in and closing your eyes or softening your gaze. Establish a connection with your body by noticing how it connects with the ground or seat beneath you. Then, you can systematically direct your attention to distinct parts of your body, one by one, starting either from your head or your toes. If you begin with your head, slowly work your way down to your toes. If you begin with your toes, slowly work your way up to your head. If you need guidance, you can find guided body scan meditations online.
As you direct your focus towards various parts of your body, notice any tension or discomfort you may be experiencing in that area. Make sure you maintain a non-judgmental attitude towards your sensations. Imagine that you are breathing in positive, calming energy to the part of your body that you are focusing on and breathing out any heaviness or tension. This helps you to build tolerance towards pain and discomfort, which can benefit you not only physically but also emotionally. One you have systematically addressed the various parts of your body, bring your attention to your entire body as a whole. Notice how it feels to settle into your body after having brought mindful awareness to every part. Is there a sense of lightness, warmth, or relaxation? Even if you still feel physical tension or discomfort, remember to acknowledge the effort you have made to reconnect with your body in a kind way.
Marina Daif, RP (Qualifying) #11207 is a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) at MyLife Counselling in Guelph. She works with couples and adults through relationships, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief & loss, self-esteem, self-criticism, and self-confidence issues. Learn more about Marina here.