Supporting Your Queer Teen: Why it is Important and How to Do It
So, your teen has come out to you as trans, bisexual, pansexual, gay or another queer identity and you are wondering how to support them. The good news is you have already completed the first step. You are seeking resources and learning. Some caregivers experience anxiety when their teen comes out to them. Some caregivers may not understand what a “coming out” process is. Some caregivers may experience an internal battle over conflicting morals if they come from a religious background or culture in which LGTBQ+ identities are met with violence or political prosecution. Other times, not knowing how to respond when your teen comes out may be due to not understanding why it is such a “big deal.” "Haven't things gotten better for queer kids”? may be a thought that crosses your mind. Or your teens are closed at school and struggling with self-harm, depression, anxiety or other mental health challenges and you are unsure of how to help, while wanting to respect their privacy and confidentiality.